What Does it Mean to be a Woman in 2012?

Women of the World

Rebecca Shore

JHU∙CCP | Communications Specialist

In this blog series, I try to shine light on positive experiences and progress towards equality for women. But these “bright spots” don’t change the overall picture—that empowering women is still an uphill struggle. As International Women’s Day approaches again this year on March 8th, I am constantly reminded of the painful, oppressive, and unjust practices that continue to afflict women and girls worldwide..

International Women's Day

If it were somehow possible to average out the experiences of all women into a “typical woman,” the picture would be bleak. Compared to men, women are devalued in the workplace, the home, and the community.

Women are disproportionately affected by poverty and homelessness, and are more likely to be targets of violence—particularly intimate partner violence.

In many countries in the Global South, girls are likely to be married before they turn 18, often against their free will.  

In the U.S., men are fighting over women’s access to contraceptives and reproductive freedoms.  A woman earns merely  77 cents to every dollar a man makes for comparable work.

Over 100 million women worldwide have undergone female genital mutilation. In Cameroon, one in four pubescent girls is subjected to “breast ironing”—having her breasts crushed or burned to make her less attractive to men before she marries. 

Married or unmarried, millions of women worldwide have an unmet need for family planning. Girls and women may not have access to an educationWomen farmers lack access to the same resources as men, so their farms have lower yields. In most of the world, especially in Asia and South America, a woman is more likely than a man to go hungry.

But it isn’t all bad news. Increasing a woman’s empowerment can bring her and her children out of poverty, improve her likelihood to use contraceptives and plan her pregnancies, use condoms to prevent HIV, encourage her to fight against practices that harm women and girls in her village or community, increase production on a farm, send her to school, and walk away from an abusive relationship, to name a few.

Inequality is an issue for men and women. Part of the way forward is for men and women around the world to speak up about the injustice around them, and to celebrate positive changes.

Please share with us what it means to be a woman in 2012 from your perspective.

Comments

I am strong, powerful, smart, beautiful, maternal, funny, sarcastic, empowered, educated, silly, clumsy, talkative, respected, loved, a good dancer, a terrible whistler, a good listener, and a decent cook. I am not defined by what I do, who I date, where I live, how I dress or any other easy classification. I am an individual and a woman.

It means that I can interested in things like cooking, keeping a nice home, being the primary caregiver, etc because I want to and not because I'm expected to.

I am speechlessly grateful for all that I have. I am proud to be a woman working in women's health.

And there is so much work to do!

We have come so far, but we still have so much to do! That can be really daunting, but also inspiring!

I'm not sure I can say what it means to be a woman--but I'm know I'm grateful to be a woman today, as opposed to most other points in history. I grew up in a loving home, in a safe and vibrant neighborhood. I had access to spectacular educational choices. I didn't have to worry about my physical safety, except for the harm's way I put myself in through adventure. I earn my own living based on my own skills and interests. I can own my own property, and put a roof over my own head. I can drive my car wherever and whenever I want to. I can define myself as a human along deeply held philosophical, aesthetic, and spiritual beliefs, not based on my relationship to a particular man (a father, a husband, a son). I can make my own mistakes, and draw my own conclusions, and follow my own bliss. May every woman--every person--one day be able to say the same.

I believe that to be a woman is to be yourself. It is to be modest, compassionate, wise, an individual, caring, honest, loyal, honorable, faithful, independant, strong in mind and soul, to have reslience, be openminded, dependable and to have high moral standards that you follow. A woman is many things and she should be able to embrace this, to embrace herself and to embrace others.

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